I'm feeling a bit guilty towards my in-laws who view as normal/natural the type of family where I'm like their son and we all live together and we are one big family. But I'm a rather cold person when it comes to relations and I really can't see myself living with parents or inlaws or being too close emotionally to them. And I tried explaining this to them in a polite way, but I feel I only managed to break their hearts and expectations.
So what is your idea of family ? What's your relation with your kids and parents. Do you see your kids/parents as friends, as kids/parents or how do you see them ?