What's your idea of family ?

For me family is kids, wife and me..
by catalin | 1 year ago (Fri, May 11, 2012 12:21pm EDT) | in Funny
What's your idea of family ?
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I'm feeling a bit guilty towards my in-laws who view as normal/natural the type of family where I'm like their son and we all live together and we are one big family. But I'm a rather cold person when it comes to relations and I really can't see myself living with parents or inlaws or being too close emotionally to them. And I tried explaining this to them in a polite way, but I feel I only managed to break their hearts and expectations.

So what is your idea of family ? What's your relation with your kids and parents. Do you see your kids/parents as friends, as kids/parents or how do you see them ?
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  • JollyRogArrh | 1 year ago | +3
    I've noticed they've saved some money by not purchasing helmets...no worries unless there's a pothole,or if someone were to remove a manhole cover.
  • catalin | 1 year ago | +1
    Also, for things like these, should we add a "discussion" category ?
    • MrJones | 1 year ago | +2
      A forum somewhat similar to a certain other website might be nice.
  • MrJones | 1 year ago | +1
    Im living in a village of about 4 to 5000 people now, nearly al of whom belong to 5 families. They have all lived together since they stopped being nomads around 3 to 4 hundred years ago and live in big extended groups, individual nuclear families probably have their own house but its often in the same building as their parents and brothers/sisters; they have no concept of privacy or personal space like what I'm used to and it gets pretty hard to deal with at times.
  • massagepluss | 1 year ago | +1
    Moving has never been so simple!
  • dv8nme | 1 year ago | +1
    Cat, I grew up in a solid middle class environment, younger of four. Mom stayed home, Dad retired from Goodyear tire and rubber. All thru life we went camping , boating,cross country trips in camper and such. Mom stayed home and kept house, ALWAYS had dinner ready, made breakfast before school and did our laundry.Yet, despite all this there was strife, Constant yelling,arguments and turmoil, now that I look back I realize we were rednecks.After 27 years my parents divorced when I was 16. My oldest brother and sister had already moved away, my other sister had her own life. My mother started to experience "empty nest syndrome" I was out running with friends and eventually went my own way, we were never very close....Fast forward 10 or so years. My grand parents, dad and one sister would have a weekly dinner together and I was guilted to attend. My grandparents were Italians "off the boat". Yet when I was there I saw the same scenario, my grandfather was nasty to my grandmother, sometimes making her cry in
    • dv8nme | 1 year ago | +1
      front of us. I was always compared to my siblings, "Anthony, why dont you---- like your sister?" "Well, ---- just got a new car", "why dont you go get a better job?" I had had enough, Nothing I did was good enough. I stopped visiting with them but once every few years. I quit Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving and the like. After 10 years they even stopped inviting me, thats what I wanted. I would visit my closest sister maybe twice per year, my grandparents every 2 or 3, my mom every 2 or 3 and my dad every 3 or 4 years. But you know,even after all that time each visit was no different than before, just negative....Nowadays I see my closest sister twice per month, we get along good now. my dad every 6 months or so, we just dont like each other, no hostility we just dont care for one another. My other sister I havent seen or talked to in 4 years then probably 5 or 6 before that. My brother in probably 12 years. granparents are gone and so is mom. I hadnt talked to mom in 4 or 5 years prior to her death and she
  • Cigarmann | 1 year ago | +1
    yah, my suv when carrying a bunch of my soccer team looks similar......
  • dv8nme | 1 year ago | +1
    lived 3 miles away. I dont regret the time Ive missed. just because its family doesnt mean people will like each other. Moms been gone for about 4 years and the one thing that did hit me was a year ago I was thinking " I should go see mom and see how she's doing". I had alienated everyone for so long I forgot she was dead!... So, make your decision wisely because some things cant ever be undone.
    • catalin | 1 year ago | +1
      I know, but it doesn't seem like I have to make a decision, let's say I naturally don't like them. It's in the way of things.

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